How To Be a Happy Couple

Every Couple goes through bumps in their relationship. So what's the secreat of those happy couples yo see kissing and cuddling their way through life ? It's not that difficult. Relationship expert Dr Pam Spurr receals the easy, everday things You can do to be happy in your relationship.

I really believe that happy couples are made up of people who are happy in themselve's says Dr Pam. '' So let's start with all important you. To be a happy couple, think about how these things in yourself might affect your relationship:'

 1.Identify Your Script : 

all of us live by a long script. This is like a film script, where we each play a particular role in relating to others. We don't even realize we're doing it.

Your role begins when you were a child and your family came to expect certain things of you and your personality.

2.dentify Your 'Fallback position' :

Next identify what is your 'fallback position' in relationship. This is when you always react the same way in certain situations. Like when yo're angry, you always go off in a huff. You simply can't stay put and face your difference with your partner.

3. Identify Your rose-color red  expectations : 

One of the most common problem people have in their love life is overly high expectations. Yes of course you want him to be romantic, but do you really expect him to send you flirty, loving texts every day ? or always surprise you with little gifts or flowers ? And even to remember the anniversary of the first time you kissed ?

Always expect to be treated well, but don't ruin your relationship because he can't give you someHollywood-Style, romantic dream.